Toddler Temper Tantrums - Know all about Why Toddler Throw Temper Tantrums, How to handle Temper Tantrums

Most parents are absolutely convinced that no other child has ever thrown a tantrum like theirs. That, of course, is a myth. Every toddler, especially between the age of two and three can and will throw a temper tantrum; what varies is the intensity and frequency.

It is mind-numbingly frustrating to watch your toddler screaming and attempting to shatter the windows with his blood curling screams, but it is at these times that you need to tell yourself to remain calm and understand that this is but a temporary phase in your child’s development.

Why toddlers throw tantrums

There are the primary causes like feeling hungry, sleepy, tired, and uncomfortable or simply the need for attention. But there are certain other reasons that we sometimes overlook, like the toddler’s frustration of experiencing feelings he or she can't express. At that age, your toddler has only just begun to string some words together, but his imagination has sparked off so much more than he can express. This will naturally lead to him acting out.

How to handle toddler temper tantrums

There is no ideal way to deal with tantrums, but usually the simplest way is to avoid them. Yes, this is definitely easier said than done, but by doing so, you are letting your child know that his/her behavior is unacceptable. Most importantly, always remind yourself that your toddler crying and throwing tantrums are a given at that age. Accordingly, you will find yourself ensuring you don’t allow your child to get testy over sleep, hunger, or discomfort. Be positive and praise your toddler for good behavior so that he or she understands the importance of being good.

Also, remember if your toddler is throwing a tantrum, don't react or reason at that point of time. Carry on with whatever you are doing, only ensure you remain within sight. If you leave the room, your child will feel abandoned.

Things to keep in mind during toddler temper tantrums

• Clear your room of potentially attractive objects, for instance your porcelain vase. Keep it well out of reach and sight (if possible). This way you avoid an unnecessary tantrum
• Give careful thought and choose your battles with your child. You can give in sometimes, else your toddler will also start using the ‘No’ word as frequently as you do.
• When all else fails, distract your child. At that age their attention span is shorter, so take advantage of that and divert your kid’s attention to something else.
• Lastly, don't test your child's patience. As parents it’s hard to see things from your toddler's perspective. So if your child is tired or sleepy, be attuned to it and do not delay his or her nap because you want to do the dishes first or clean the mess of toys from the living room. You’ll find more time to do that if your baby is napping peacefully.