Toddler Behavior Modification Therapy

A toddler’s behavior is affected by a number of factors. Primarily, it is essential to realize that nobody is born with the knowledge of good and bad. A child, very innocently, does whatever he or she feels is the best option, on the spur of the moment. It is our duty, as adults, to create awareness in children by teaching them the difference between right and wrong. Unacceptable behavior in the form of temper tantrums, whining and disobedience are all attention-seeking patterns that are triggered by a sense of insecurity. At times, the toddler may display destructive behavior like damaging objects or hurting a sibling or another child as well. It is but natural for a toddler to want undivided attention from his or her parents or caregivers. A feeling of being ignored usually brings about such unexpected behavioral changes in an otherwise well-mannered toddler. Besides, toddlers also try to test their limits. Hence, it is up to us as adults to draw the line between acceptable and unacceptable behavior.

Explaining to a child the difference between good and bad behavior through stories with morals is one way of making him or her aware of differential behavior. Consistency maintained by all members of the family, in disciplining techniques also plays a vital role in behavior modification in toddlers as it prevents chances of confusion and creates a better understanding and acceptance of limits and expectations. A child is bound to forget topics that have been discussed earlier and repeating what is expected of a toddler from time to time will help in reinforcing good behavior.

A word of praise and encouragement, given as soon as a child does something that pleases you, goes a long way in creating an understanding of acceptable actions in the child’s mind. Similarly, positive reinforcement given to make a child aware of a mistake as soon as it occurs will help the toddler realize what he or she did was not acceptable. Praise or punishment given when the child has forgotten the action often tends to leave the child confused. A behavior modification chart wherein a child is rewarded with stars or stickers for every good deed helps in motivating the child to be at his or her best behavior. It also helps in keeping track of behavior patterns. Insufficient rest and hunger are other factors that make a toddler irritable and cranky. Hence, a daily routine with a regular meal and nap schedule will further reduce occasions of bad behavior.