Behavior Modification For Toddlers

Toddlers are often on the lookout for complete and undivided attention. Most often, being the youngest member of the family, a toddler is the centre of attention and often feels that he should always be the focus of every conversation or action. However, this is not always possible. For instance, when catching up on work, running errands and in the presence of visitors or when visiting, the focus usually shifts to other matters. In such cases, toddlers crave for attention by throwing tantrums, touching or destroying objects around them or by causing harm to themselves, to siblings or other children. Arrogance, utter disobedience and whining are other attention-seeking behavior patterns that often, seen in toddlers. This behavior is unacceptable and needs immediate modification.

Toddler Behavior Modification

Speaking firmly, while emphasizing the importance of good behavior is one method that may prove beneficial in improving toddler behavior. However to a child, just the phrase ‘good behavior’ has no meaning and valid examples and explanations play a vital role in justifying expectations. Hence, it is essential to explain to the child the difference between good and bad behavior. Immediate positive reinforcement will help the child realize his or her mistake while immediate praise will make the child aware of what is good and acceptable. This understanding will definitely improve behavior patterns. The use of behavior modification charts using stickers or stars as a reward for good behavior is also recommended to create an understanding of good and appreciated behavior. These charts also help in keeping track of behavior patterns.

Toddler Behavior

The behavior of a toddler is also influenced by diet, daily routine and interaction with people around. A toddler who has not had sufficient rest or one who is hungry is bound to be irritable and cranky. Ensuring that your child follows a regular routine is beneficial in regulating behavior. Well-timed meals with a healthy balance of various essential nutrients and a regular nap routine will go a long way in ensuring that your child is happier and content. Quality time spent with a child will also help in strengthening the bond between parent and child thus reducing the chances of unacceptable attention-seeking behavior triggered by insecurities. Similarly, when a child is not used to being around people other than the immediate family, the presence of an outsider may seem like an intrusion to the child thus making him or her uncomfortable. In such cases, taking your child out more often will give him a chance to interact with others thus boosting confidence levels and improving social skills and behavior.