With Arms Wide Open: Don't Fear Adoption

People who are only just learning about child adoption may have some fears and concerns.
Fear of Adoption

People who are only just learning about child adoption may have some fears and concerns. Adopting a child can be a greatly rewarding experience and therefore it is important to address the issues and rectify misconceptions which commonly surround the process.

Adoption fears are mainly focused on the following aspects;

  • Is adoption affordable? Is it suitable for my income level?
  • Will the adoption process continue for too long?
  • Is open adoption a safe option? Will the birth parents change their decision and take the child back?
  • Will the child be able to adjust emotionally?

Financial concerns

One of the most common misconceptions about adoption is that, it is only meant for the wealthy. There are many adoption options available for families with different income levels. Middle income families may also be eligible for a government adoption tax credit. When adopting a child who is in state foster care, the costs may even be reduced or waived. According to adoption laws, a home study is done to evaluate if a family is capable of fulfilling the child's physical, emotional and financial needs.

The process

The waiting period for adoption can depend on various factors. The average time a family may have to wait is between 6 to 18 months. It may take a while to match a child with a prospective family as a variety of factors such as age, health, race and ethnicity have to be considered. You can reduce the waiting period by formulating an adoption plan, clearly stating your adoption goals. It is a good idea to be aware of the adoption process as well. You can also go to reputed adopting professionals who will assist you along the way.

Open adoption

Even in an open adoption, there is a legal transfer of right from the biological family to the adoptive one. In some cases, in an open adoption, the birth mother can communicate with the child. This, however, depends on the comfort level of both families.

Emotional development of the child

Most studies on adoption show that children who are adopted are not at a greater risk of psychological problems as compared to non-adopted children. Both biological and adopted children go through similar experiences with their parents. Being biological or adopted does not seem to have an effect on mental health and adjustment.

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